Whether you’re starting a new relationship, or in the middle of a serious relationship, there’s always a chance that your boyfriend could be cheating on you.
If you have reasons to suspect he’s cheating, or if you’re just wondering if you’re over thinking it, follow these easy steps to find out whether or not your man is being faithful.
1. He emotionally distance himself from you
Most guys, when they decide to “make the jump,” start distancing themselves from their original partner. They start giving attitude and ignoring their original partner.
This shows itself in a number of ways, including a lower amount of eye contact, refusing to talk to you, getting icy towards you, and generally seeming less interested than he once was.
And if you asked, you start getting excuses like “Am busy” or “Talk to you later”
Along with being a classic sign of cheating, it’s also a sign that he’s checking out of the relationship.
2. He stops Spending time with You
When cheaters decide to jump ship from their main relationship, the girls they’re dumping quickly notice the amount of time they spend with their partners shrinking. The reason why is because he’s no longer prioritizing you and because he’s spending all his other time with his future girlfriend.
3. He picks up a fight with you with every little thing you do
One of the signs that your man might be having another woman other than you is when he picks up a fight with any little thing you do. What you do before that makes him happy now makes him get angry with you. And he is quick to snub you not atlking to you for days when you two quarrel.
4. He’s Overly Protective of His Phone
Honesty is the best policy; that hasn’t really changed since our pre-K days. In a stable, healthy relationship, everything should be on the table. While there should be a certain level of trust present in every relationship, a super secretive boyfriend could be hiding something. When all apps on his phone from whatsapp to gallery to Messenger is having applock, then babe, your boyfriend is probably having another chick he is hiding from you.
5. He moves far away from you when he wants to make phone calls
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Your boyfriend cant make phone calla beside you, when his phone rings, he stands up and move away from you, babe, your man is probably got a side chick he is hiding from you and might be seeing another girl. This is one of the signs.
6. He lies about other things
Studies have shown that guys who lie about smaller things are more likely to lie about big things, too. Though this isn’t one of the surefire signs he has a side chick, it’s something that suggests that he may have more issues than he’s letting on.
Even if he doesn’t have a side chick, you should be cautious with guys who are so flippant about lying. After all, you never know what skeletons he could be hiding.
7. He Stops requesting for sex from you
One of the easiest to gauge signs he has a side chick is how often he requests sex from you.
On average, most men will want to get it on at least twice a week, assuming they aren’t overworked, sick, or dealing with testosterone drops.
If he doesn’t seem that interested in sleeping with you, chances are high that he’s getting it from someone else. Or, he may just really not be interested in you sexually.
8. He stopped bothering trying to make things work.
Do you find yourself being the only one actually working to keep the relationship together? If so, he may be trying to be dead weight as a way to get you to dump him. Or, more commonly, he could have legitimately just stopped caring to the point that he just has no interest in even keeping up appearances.
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